Mr Gutzmer first revealed he had a crush on me via FB message on April 6th but he knew I was dating someone. He then told me of his desire to have sex with me on June 3 2019 in a message via instagram as he was not able to contact me as normal on Facebook as he was temporarily banned for posting nude pictures of himself. Later in June we reconnected after he broke his foot and needed someone to take him to a few places. He grabbed and kissed me suddenly and passionately on June 27th at my house saying he could no longer control himself.
Throughout the summer we engaged in a romantic relationship but he knew I would not have sex with him unless I was in a relationship with just him. He said he wanted a monogamous relationship after having been a tumultuous and volatile open relationship for 2 years with Tom Kelner. He had started to date David Hill and kept everything about us from him and kept expressing love for me and Dave and to have a relationship with him. When out with me, my friends or at my house he acted very much like we were dating, was calm laughing and very relaxed. Only when he spoke of Dave was he crying uncontrollably and angry, so much so he would punch walls, his car and threw his phone breaking it a few times in arguments with Dave.
I was going through chemotherapy, (Brandon even taking me to The Mayo clinic for treatment one time), and the death of my godson and was very fragile and vulnerable. Brandon and I became very close with many lengthy discussions and nearly daily contact. He knew I had a prescription for adderall and began to ask me for some. I did as he asked. It began slowly and became more and more of a desire of his to the point of my sometimes running out. Sometimes he would sell some as I had no income because of my health and had his friend Dani do it also as she could make more. I do not know that he ever took a portion of the sale but she always did.
Our physical relationship at times became very intense with him staying until mornings at my house or having me meet him at the new place he had moved to with David Hill. Emotionally he expressed “being in love with two men” but almost daily complained to me about the fact Dave would not have sex with him. He made a few posts about being rejected by Dave.
It was at this time I began to see him get drunk more than once a week. He would call me at 3-4 in the morning sometimes crying and hyperventilating over his hating living there and the way Dave treated him and made him feel. He began to talk about ending his life and dying. He said he couldn't leave as he felt controlled. He began to express more and more his desire to pursue a relationship with me.
He would dog sit at his ex-boyfriend, Tom Kelner's house on Saturdays and when Tom was out of town. He had me come over and stay with him every time. This continued throughout the relationship with the last time he picked me up and had me stay over on Feb 10-11 2020.
It has become clear and apparent that Mr Gutzmer's actions with me were based on my being vulnerable due to my physical and mental health conditions. He took advantage to satisfy his uncontrollable sexual dysfunctions, his emotional abuse and manipulation of me to acquire adderall, and his increasing alcohol abuse which he had identified more than a year ago and struggled to control. This also led to periods of alcoholic blackouts and alcoholic delusions.